speaker + told + person + to + verbUse told for direct orders and firm instructions. Name the person who received the command.
Report commands with told/asked + person + to + verb. For negative commands, use not to + verb.
speaker + told + person + to + verbUse told for direct orders and firm instructions. Name the person who received the command.
speaker + asked + person + to + verbUse asked for requests and polite instructions. Keep the receiver before to + verb.
speaker + told/asked + person + not to + verbFor negative commands, put not before to. Do not move not after to.
Anna told me to wait outside.
Use told + person + to + verb for an order or instruction.
Use this form to report what someone ordered, instructed, or warned another person to do. The action becomes to + verb.
Use asked when the speaker wanted help, a favor, or polite action from someone. The receiver stays after asked.
If the original message was Don't..., report it with not to + verb. Keep the negative meaning in the new sentence.
Reported commands change shape. Stop! becomes told me to stop, not told me stop.
Told and asked are different choices. Told reports orders; asked reports requests.
USE_TOLD_SOMEONE_TOw5When you report an order or instruction, name the person who received it and use to + base verb. This pattern turns direct words into reported speech.
USE_ASKED_SOMEONE_TOw5For polite requests, use asked instead of told. Keep the receiver of the request before to + base verb.
NEGATIVE_COMMAND_WITH_NOT_TOw5If the original command is negative, keep the negative before the infinitive: not to + base verb. This works after told and asked.
PICK_TOLD_OR_ASKEDw4Use told for orders, rules, and firm instructions. Use asked for requests, polite instructions, and favors.
KEEP_OBJECT_AFTER_REPORTING_VERBw4After told or asked, include the person who must do the action: me, him, us, them, Anna. Do not jump straight to to + verb when the receiver is part of the meaning.